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Saturday, January 5, 2008

7 Universal Laws for Parents of Toddlers and Pre-Schoolers

Parents and children view things in different perspectives. Understanding how your toddler thinks as she grows into a teenager will enhance your relationship with her. The article by Jeff Herring is very insightful and I found it to be useful. These Universal Laws are not new and we may have known some of them and even practice them.

Law No. 2 is difficult to practice because the parent has to put in continuous effort. Yes, being Consistent, Resistant and Persistent with our kids is a full time job (Just like being a Parent)

Law No. 4, that is, Law of mine is very funny but speaks the truth the whole truth and nothing but the truth.


To me what is the most important rule is Law No. 7, The Law of "Solid Walls". This law explains why Law no. 2 is important.

Well, do read up about all the laws governing children and parents and put them into practice.

Parents of Toddlers and Pre-Schoolers: 7 Universal Laws by Jeff Herring


1. The Law of the Beast
As parents we need to keep in mind that we are raising our teenager while we raise our toddler. They are essentially the same beast.

2. The Law of CPR
Having little to do with cardiopulminaryresuscitation, the law of CPR states that we need to be Consistent, Resistant and Persistent with our kids.

3. The Law of Words
Our little ones need to be taught to "use their words, not their hands" when dealing with conflicts.

4. The Law of Mine
In the world of a young child everything is mine. If I am playing with it, it's mine. If you are playing with it, it's mine. If I played with it yesterday and go bored with it, and you play with it today, it's mine!

5. The Law of Sharing
It's very important to teach our children to share. At the same time, it's just as important to understand that asking a small child to share their toy is like asking one of us to share our car or house!

6. The Law of the Team
Each parent brings a unique set of skills to the job of parenting. The goal is not so much who is right, but how do we form the best parenting team we can form. As I like to say "we don't have to think alike, we just have to think together."

7. The Law of "Solid Walls"
"Have you ever walked thru a solid wall?" Of course not. But what if one day you tripped into a solid wall and went right through it, unharmed? Wouldn't you be tempted to try it again? It's the same with parenting- when kids get it that mom and dad are "solid walls' when it comes to managing behavior, the less likely they are to try to walk thru you.

Visit ParentingYourTeenager.com for tips and tools for thriving during the teen years. You can also subscribe to our f*r*e*e 5 day e-program on The Top 5 Things to Never Say to Your Teenager, from parenting coach and expert Jeff Herring.


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